Anal Hygiene – Making sure your rectal area is cleaned inside and out. This is most important before engaging in anal sex.
Anal Sex – intercourse via the anus
Anal training: Inserting progressively larger objects (usually butt plugs) in order to stretch the anal sphincter, in preparation for such activities as anal sex and fisting. Safety note: Should proceed slowly and cautiously in order to reduce the risk of hemorrhoids or worse problems; the recipient should always be in control of the insertion. [Definition taken from FetLife]
Ananga Ranga – An ancient sacred text that focuses on Non-monotony within monogamy.The purpose is to maintain harmony within marriage. Emphasizing monogamy, it teaches you to have sex with 32 lovers. (your lover being all 32 of those lovers)
BDSM – Bondage, Discipline/Dominance, Sadism/Submission, Masochism
Butt plug: Much like a dildo, only shaped slightly differently. Usually has a flared base to prevent it from entirely entering the rectum. They come in a variety of styles and sizes; some can vibrate. [Definition taken from FetLife]
Communication – Volley and relay. You say something (volley) the other person responds letting you know they received and understood what you said through verbal and non-verbal cues and responses. (relay).
Domme –Term used in the BDSM community to refer to a female dominant
Dry Orgasm – When a man reaches sexual climax but doesn’t ejaculate
Erotic Asphyxiation – Lovers, who like to push themselves to the brink during sex by applying pressure to their airwaves and depleting their brain of oxygen during those critical moments before climax.[definition provided by Sienna Mynx]
Ejaculation – The expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the penis during orgasm.
H-spot – Another name for p-spot. See P-spot
He-spot –Another name for p-spot. See P-spot
Kama Sutra –
Kinky– (A subjective term) related to or having/engaging in “unconventional” sexual practices or behavior.
Open Relationship – Orgasm – (Definition provided by Magnus Hirschfeld Archive of Sexology) Orgasm (Greek orgasmos: lustful excitement) is the sudden release of muscular and nervous tension at the climax of sexual excitement. The experience represents the most intense physical pleasure of which human beings are capable and is basically the same for males and females.
P-spot – The prostate gland in a male.
Pegging: (1) The practice of using a strap-on dildo for penetration (generally applied female-to-male anal). (2) Sitting on a “peg” (like a butt plug, but fixed in place) with the intent of expanding the anus to facilitate anal sex, fisting, etc. (seeanal training). [Definition taken from FetLife]
Perineum – The area between the anus and the scrotum or vulva. The informal name for it is Taint
Retrograde ejaculation – when semen enters the bladder instead of going out through the urethra during ejaculation.
Role Playing –
Sex – lust , attraction, and/or desire manifested through a series of physical connections, including copulation, between two or more individuals that result from verbal, behavioral, and emotional cues
Sex Positive – Comfortable with ones own sexual identity and with the sexual behaviors of others, with the purpose of promoting healthy, smart, safe, and consensual sex. (Source: USA Today)
Sexual Fantasy –
Sexuality – An awareness and/or expression of an individuals erotic pleasures, actions, and reactions
Submissive – Person who desires to give up control of themselves, or of certain aspects of their lives, to a Dominant partner. Some may submit only occasionally, while others may yearn to submit all of themselves. This type of partnership is often referred to in the BDSM community as a dominant/submissive (D/s) partnership. (Source: Fetlife and Kinkly)
Swinging – Someone in a committed relationship who swaps partners for sex. (Source: Fetlife)
Taint – Colloquial name for Perineum