While chatting it up with fellow erotic writer Yvette Hines she told me about some sex method called Karezza. I do not know why she knows about this or how she knows. And I REFUSE to ask. But it did get me curious. I mean if there is some sex related anything out there that I dont know of, I look into it. So I did a little research and low and behold found the translated Karezza texts. What a girl will do to write a great sex scene. Yes my life is hard. I know. But I digress.

I don’t believe Karezza is ancient like tantra and kama sutra. In fact, its only about a couple hundred years old. What is it you ask? Sex without orgasm. WTF? Who the hell would write some crap about that? It’s called my early 20’s. Now y’all want me to go back to that. HELL NAWL. And whoever came up with the idea needs to be taken out back and shot in the head. (Normally I dont condone violence, but this is an exception).

Send women back into the dark ages why don’t you. Hell we just got to the point where we are sexually liberated enough to talk about sex and sexual pleasure. Alright now initially kareeza was meant for men to without the “O.” Now that I can understand. But the text goes on to say its better if both parties go without it. Really? Hmmm sounds like the doctor was a bit jealous. Just cause we have multi-orgasmic bodies… And how long are we fucking if nobody is getting theirs? Let me say, so far I’m not down with Kareeza.

Okay wait. I have to admit something. I have not finished reading it. I saw no orgasm and freaked. You cant blame me can you? I just started having flashbacks to my early days and almost getting there and it ending right before. *sigh* Flashbacks to a life I let go of. A time when I didn’t know any better. And I just couldn’t…no I can’t condone that type of sex. EVER. Not as a way of life. Nuh Unh.

But to be fair, I will continue to do bit more research on Kareeza. You know actually finish reading the text at the very least. Maybe I’ll run into another sex goddess who practices it. And wait, now that I think about it. I really need to compare Kareeza with Tantric. Hmmm, more questions, less answers.  Well my fellow Edusexuals, when I finish reading/skimming/researching it, I will give you the full breakdown of Kareeza. Then, I’ll let you know if it’s worth it or if its some sex technique for the unemployed aka folks with time who have all damn day to make love, withhold orgasms, and keep making love. I’m all for putting in time and overtime, but at some point I gotta go to work. So stay tuned as I learn more about Kareeza. If you are a studier and/or practioner of Kareeza, let The Edusexual know.

Until next time…Be Free, Be Safe, Be Loved,

K.D. King