Alright, well pussy has made men murders and conquerors, it has literally brought about the fall of men. I would go on but this series would turn into a dissertation on war, death, and the power of pussy.

But learning what we have, let me ask this simple question. If pussy is so powerful, why do so many women not realize the value of their bodies?

Why do we act like its trash and a not a treasure?

WE NEED A PUSSY REVOLUTION!!!!!

What do we need to do it?

Simple. Three things

Love, Respect, and Education

YUP!

That’s it!

I said it the first day I started this blog, back in the days when it was known as the Kinky Diva Khronicles and continue to in it’s evolution to The Edusexual, and I end each week saying be be free, be safe, be loved

Let’s break down the ingredients for The Pussy Revolution (Love, Respect, and Education)

Love– A feeling of strong or constant affection for a person. (Webster’s Definition)

Now, let that person be yourself. See, this is not about how another person may love you, but about how you love yourself. Love yourself enough to chose the right partner. Love yourself enough to say “No” to what you are not comfortable with and “Yes” to your pleasure and safety. Love yourself enough to demand respect and leave if you do not get it. Love yourself first and the rest will follow.

Also for my biblical folks really look at some of the definitions of love, the go to most folks quote Love is patient, love is kind…(1 Corinthians 13:4-8). I want you to take those definitions of love and apply them to yourself. Love yourself without fear (1 John 4:7-21). Normally when we think of love it is to God and our fellow man, and lord knows we haven’t even mastered that. Let’s apply love as we know it, read it, and learn it – to ourselves. It’s worth repeating – Love yourself first and the rest will can follow.

Respect – Respect yourself. Respect your body. This has nothing to do with the number of partners, type of clothing, nor your displays of nudity or your body. Hell, the only thing stopping me from walking around naked half the time is the law. Let them mofos change it and make public nudity a thing. Shiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit, i’m dropping all clothes and strutting out. Not because I don’t respect myself. Not because I’m vein and feel my body should be envied or adored (well, maybe adored). But because it’s fucking HOT where I live and I just want to be cool. But I digress…respect.

Respecting yourself and your body is about safety and honesty. Be safe with your body, that means use appropriate protection. That means saying no to things you feel are unsafe. Honesty is being realistic with yourself about what you are doing and WHY? If its just to orgasm. Then shit I’m all about that. Wrap it up. Come. Then Go. or stay and cuddle. Who cares. Do you. But if you are doing something to get a partner (permanent or temporary), keep a parter, grab attention, be/feel loved – pump the brakes. Lets re-evaluate

So you know how I love definitions so lets run through some real quick

Respect (Merriam Webster) – an act of giving particular attention : consideration  2. high or special regard : esteem

Here is The Edusexual definition of self-respect and esteem

Self-Respect/Self Esteem  – Holding yourself in high or special regard, giving particular attention to your overall well being (physical, emotional, sexual, spiritual). This is represented through actions and decisions one makes.

No one is perfect. We will fail and flaw in certain areas. Progress, not perfection. But lets learn to hold ourselves in high or special regard.

Love yourself. Respect yourself.

Education – Well that’s obvious. Some of us simply don’t have the tools to love ourselves. We were never given them. That is when we need to seek out women who do. Learn from them. Seek out counseling (you know The Edusexual is VERY pro mental health). But let is educate ourselves on how to protect ourselves as well. Educate yourself on what’s out there and understand what your choices are. Don’t know where to begin, check out the Resource Section of the site as a good starting point. Education is all encompassing.

Love yourself. Respect yourself. Educate yourself.

THIS IS SERIOUS!

THIS IS PUSSY!

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PUSSY IS POWER!!!!

Stop treating it like dollar item at the swap meet.

Love your motherfucking selves!!!!

I’ll say it again.

LOVE YOURSELF FIRST, SO THE REST CAN FOLLOW.

It’s not how other people love you or IF other people love you.

It’s how you love you.

It’s not how other people value you,

It’s how you value yourself

It’s not about flowers or even being de-flowered. It’s not about dates, candy, gifts, or hell even paid bills (don’t get it twisted paid bills are important. REAL fucking important. But don’t think that gives someone else power over your pussy. It’s still yours. You have the power).

The Edusexual will try and do it’s part with education, but there is so much more. Each day I want you to be loved, to love, to honor, to respect yourself and your partner (if applicable)

THE PUSSY REVOLUTION WILL NOT BE TELEVISED, but it will be blogged about.

Until next time…Be Free, Be Safe, Be Loved

K.D. King