If you remember the posts on Karezza, the term “retro-ejaculation” came up in my research. I said I would look into it further and I have. For those of you who need to catch up, check out Karezza and withholding the big “O.”
Karezza Part 1 – Did you say no big “O”? WTF???
This will should be the end of our Kareeza series. I think I’ve had my fill of ejaculations . Yeah pun intended.
NOW BACK TO THE REGULARLY SCHEDULED PROGRAM
RETROGRADE EJACULATION
For some men retro-ejaculation aka retrograde ejaculation is a dysfunction. They want to cum (I can relate to that) and can’t. For other folks, they use it to stave off cumming to make the sex last longer and increase the feeling.
For those for whom it is a dysfunction.
Sorry for you!
No really. Outside of really sympathizing with those who can’t cum, it can really take a toll on a relationship. If you sperm is going in and not out, you can’t get someone pregnant. Family planning is now a complicated issue. Sadly, I’m sure they will find a cure for that before breast cancer. Kinda like we have a cure for erectile dysfunction but not menopause, cancer, heart disease, or hell anything else overall health or women’s health related.
But don’t let me get on my soapbox.
Back to cumming in the stomach.
Retrograde ejaculation aka dry orgasm is when a man’s semen goes into his bladder rather than through the uretha to squirt out on his lady’s boobs.
TOO MUCH????
My bad. Basically during ejaculation the semen goes in(the bladder) and not out (the penis). There is very little to no semen(dry orgasm). HOWEVER, you do still climax.
It is a type of erectile dysfunction, but it doesn’t cause any harm. The only issue is fertility. Which means if you’re not trying to get anyone pregnant, no harm no foul.
[UPDATE – I had a video on retrograde ejaculation, where they actually showed ejaculate in a petri dish. I know, Eeeeeeeeewwwww. Luckily, you’ve been spared from that, as the video no longer exists. I could have added another one, but none were as potent as the original]
Alright. Now that we know what Retrograde ejaculation is, symptoms, causes, etc. Lets talk about why men would CHOSE to have the semen go into the bladder.
I HAVE NO FUCKING CLUE!!!!!!!!!!
The thought makes me gag! And not much makes me gag
But lets go back to retrograde ejaculation and Karezza. Before we discuss that. Lets talk about the 4 phases of male response according to Masters and Johnson (from the Magnus Hirschfeld Archive for Sexology) with The Edusexual translation of the phases.
1. EXCITEMENT – I lick his ear, rub his inner thigh, tease his nipples – HE GETS HARD
2. PLATEAU- He sticks his thick throbbing dick in my…mouth, pussy…wherever I’m feeling like that day and strokes. Slapping, pounding, saturated in my wetness. HE MAINTAINS
3. ORGASM – His body seizes, his ass muscles clench, his balls draw up tight, his body shakes, his pulse speeds up, HE CUMS
(Where? That’s a discussion you need to have ahead of time so you don’t go “Dammit, it got in my eye!”)
4. RESOLUTION – If he is not in his teens, twenties, in a romance novel, or a practitioner of Tantra or Karezza then the probability of multiple-orgasms is slim to none. His breathing returns to normal, his erection is no longer hard (it may though be semi-erect) and you guys can snuggle or go back to work. And if you rode him or sucked him right, his ass might be asleep. ZZZZZZZZZZZ
Okay now lets focus on step 3 and 4 of the male orgasm. We’re going to start with defining three terms
Ejaculation – (Definition provided by Free Dictionary.com) The expulsion of seminal fluid from the urethra of the penis during orgasm.
Orgasm – (Definition provided by Magnus Hirschfeld Archive of Sexology) Orgasm (Greek orgasmos: lustful excitement) is the sudden release of muscular and nervous tension at the climax of sexual excitement. The experience represents the most intense physical pleasure of which human beings are capable and is basically the same for males and females.
Retro-grade ejaculation – (Definition provided by the National Institute of Health)
when semen enters the bladder instead of going out through the urethra during ejaculation.
It is important to note you can orgasm without ejaculation, but you cannot ejaculate without orgasming.
Which brings us to Karezza pt 2.5
Retrograde ejaculation is NOT a method used in Karezza. It may have been in ancient days before they understood that they were still coming. Just cause you can’t see it, doesn’t mean its not there.
In retrograde ejaculation you are orgasming AND ejaculating. It’s just going into your belly. Don’t worry you will pee it out later and your little swimmers will swim down the sewer.
So then the question becomes what technique is used to stop/prevent ejaculation but not the orgasm and cause men to be multi-orgasmic.
In women, I can help you, but this posting is about men. As I research more about Tantra I will answer that question. I do believe it is in the breathing like for women. But I will be more specific in future orgasm series.
Until them
Stroke it, lick it, and cum everywhere. Unless you have timing issues, then I’m going to need you to do your own independent research cause a two pump chump needs more help than I can provide. At least right now at least.
But enjoy sex. No one says don’t come. And if you feel you are going to come too soon STOP MOVING!!!!! Sex is about mutual pleasure and satisfaction. Enjoy it! Come! Don’t come! Just have fun and be safe.
Until next time…Be Free, Be Safe, Be Loved,
K.D. King
The Edusexual 